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Finding Love: Overcoming Panic and Doing the Work

Hey everyone, I have something very special to share with you today. My dear friend Jay Shetty recently joined me for an exclusive interview and Q&A session. We discussed his new book, “Eight Rules of Love,” and I wanted to share a portion of that conversation with you. Jay is not only a talented coach but also an insightful person. He even sent me a lovely package with his book and a mirror to remind myself why I love myself. So, while you watch the interview, grab yourself a copy of “Eight Rules of Love” available on Amazon. I believe everyone should read it and enjoy the interview!

Introduction

I am so excited to have Jay Shetty here with me. We’ve been friends for a while, and I couldn’t wait for him to share his unique perspective on love and life. Jay spent three years as a monk, which is quite extraordinary. Most people would only commit to such a life-changing experience for a much shorter period. During these three years, Jay disconnected from the world and focused on his personal growth. I asked him if it was challenging to be away from the fast-paced world most of us are familiar with. Jay shared how this experience allowed him to shut out external distractions and truly understand himself. He encourages everyone to find time, whether it’s a few hours, days, or months, to disconnect and explore their inner selves.

Importance of Solitude

Loneliness is often viewed negatively, but Jay emphasizes its importance in personal growth. He shared a study where men and women were asked to spend 15 minutes alone with their thoughts or give themselves an electric shock. Astonishingly, many participants chose the shock rather than being alone with their thoughts. This fear of solitude prevents us from understanding our own desires and interests. Jay insists that we must allocate time to be alone with our thoughts and discover what truly makes us happy and fulfilled. By doing so, we can better understand ourselves and make informed decisions.

Challenges of Finding Love

Jay and I discussed the pressure many people feel to find love and settle down. Society often sets strict timelines and expectations on individuals, causing anxiety and comparison. Whether it’s family, friends, or social media, we constantly encounter reminders of what we haven’t yet achieved. Jay advises against succumbing to this pressure. He shares that everyone moves at their own pace, and we need to be content with our own journey. It’s essential to focus on personal growth and self-discovery, rather than rushing into relationships for the sake of meeting societal expectations.

Overcoming Panic

This pressure to find love can lead to panic, desperation, and fear of being left behind. However, Jay points out that making decisions from a place of panic seldom yields positive outcomes. It’s vital to take a step back, reassess our priorities, and make choices based on joy and excitement instead. By doing so, we are more likely to attract and maintain healthy relationships. Jay suggests scheduling time each week for introspection and asking ourselves what we can do to make today a great day. This practice helps us connect with our inner voice and align our actions with our true desires.

Doing the Work

Jay encourages people to embark on a self-discovery journey while simultaneously dating. It’s not a linear process of finding oneself and then finding a partner; the two can happen simultaneously. By working on ourselves, we become more attuned to red flags or manipulative behaviors in others. It also allows us to build confidence and be authentic when connecting with new people. Jay adds that relationships shouldn’t start like job interviews, where both parties try to present their best versions. Instead, we should embrace vulnerability and offer our true selves right from the start. This approach increases the chances of building genuine connections.

Debunking Myths

In the dating world, there’s a common misconception that love conquers all. Jay highlights how this belief often stems from movies and media that depict relationships magically working out. However, he reminds us that real-life situations require more than just love. It’s crucial to work on ourselves continuously and be in the right place emotionally and mentally before committing to someone else. Jay dismantles the idea that finding love is a race against time, emphasizing that rushing leads to settling for incompatible partners and missing genuine connections.

Conclusion

Finding love is a unique journey for each individual. It requires dedicating time to self-reflection and personal growth. By learning to be comfortable in solitude, we can better understand ourselves and attract healthy relationships. It’s essential to reject societal pressures and focus on our own path. So, take a moment to reflect on what you can do today to make it a great day for yourself. Remember, you are exactly where you need to be; trust the process and embrace the journey!